One assumed I must have been abused as a child to do this work, and seemed disappointed when I told him no, in fact, I had been—and still am—loved, and loved well. Men have instructed me to lose a few pounds, or that I need to work on being sexier. Men strip for women has taken me my whole life to begin to understand myself as a sexual subject deserving of pleasure, tenderness, joy; the world was not eager to teach me this.
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When Women Approach and Men Receive: Masculinity and Sexual Subjectivity in the Strip Club
As a sex educator, I spent the last two years researching the topic of sexual subjectivity, mostly through the lens of the difficulty cisgender women have, in adolescence and beyond, of developing their own subjectivity—their sense that they have a right to pleasure, safety, and fulfillment in men strip for women relationships. Peri said that, while the club does get regular guests who are there to see certain men and be turned on, the percentage of women who fall into that group is very small. Others say not to dare lose a single ounce; that I am perfect, that my body is exactly to their tastes. They make it their literal business to focus on just male entertainment.
They need more than just flesh. But I still believe that women should be able to party at a male strip club until dawn on a Saturday night if they so choose. In one scene, Jess asks Yvette, a sex worker who was sexually assaulted that night, to dance.